BEST FRIEND... :) Am sure all of us out there have found a best friend in some one or the other.. For the ones who don't have, don't worry... Someone somewhere sometime,, will prove to be the best to you..! :) :) Few of them are extremely lucky to have found the best in a school pal, some find the best in their siblings, some run behind finding someone best, and some stay aloof, alone not wanting any other person best for themselves... Well, my best friend happens to be the one, who brought me into this world....!! My Mommy :D
BEST people happen to us, when they love us unconditionally, care for us inspite of us not doing anything back in return, not judge us in our wrongs, one who doesn't ask for an explanation, instead understands what we would have done or what we wouldn't have..!! Best is one who doesn't need the tag of being the best, who's immune to insecurities and who never gets bored of being with you in and out of life... :)
Infact, there are many who call anybody and everybody as their best friend.. lol ;) I don't get the concept of someone being your best friend over night! haha! ;) On the other note, as a matter of fact, nobody can actually be 'dee' best to anybody, because we are human beings, and want it or not, we keep evolving..! Change is one thing that constantly accompanies us... But, the fact, the harsh practicality is a lil hard on us, so we choose someone we know consistently as someone best.... And if such choices work, there is a feeling of being special, and if they don't you have a lesson... :) :) MY BEST FRIEND and me have a lotta differences though I'm an extension of her... Differences to such core that We feel we're each others enemies at times, but I still choose her to be someone best to me...
I happened to write about this topic, as I see a lot of people depending on having a 'best friend', some of them lose track of their path and get into agony in their search for a best friend... So, all I am saying is, Why to search for the comfortability in something and someone that is not reachable to us..!! Instead, life can be made beautiful by opening your eyes, allowing your heart to feel, and looking for the ones around you, understanding the ones around you, coz there are times when we would have ignored the most important person's in our lives. (P.S unintentionally though :D) Life seems to be at its best not coz of a friend alone in it, but with what you make the best of it..... :) :) :) ISN'T IT?? :)
Being positive is one thing I inherited sincerely from my mother...!! I can say the best thing one must inculcate.. ;)
Its a summer night, and it seems to be thundering and raining... Yes, Bangalore weather is so unpredictable like the minds of the people here................................................
I dunno what I have in store for myself, but it seems so difficult when a loved one or I can rather put it this way, the one we trust proves us wrong..! Ohh..! Its raining this night and I usually love when its raining... But I don't have any interest towards it now.. :( Breaking of trust is the biggest hurt one can get and is the biggest sin one can do...
Trust to me is related to God himself! Some people play with God as well.... Its early in the morning, and I haven't yet said Hellooow to my sleep...!! Sometimes its better to have a relationship with books, writing, reading, and yrself..... Atleast they don't leave by your side...! ;) ;) However good you are, people will do bad, one or the other day, what matters is the sustaining of it in a better way... I know myself better to sustain a loss, because, this loss has not been mine, this loss has been the person who chose to lose me.....!! (P.S without any of my faults and mistakes)
I believe, forever, that What happens, happens for the good..! And inspite of all the downs that am seeing this rainy, thunderous night, I am awaiting a beautiful sunny day tomorrow....! And I also believe that tomorrow's sunshine and the coming days are gona love me more....! A bad sulking phase has gone away and there are more beautiful ones to come... The only way to wipe away the scars made on heart is, looking at life in a bigger way, and giving it the most needed SMILE.................... :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :)
This is my first blog and I am dedicating it to all my gals out there...!! Being a graduate is like having 'mixed feelings' I can say, coz on one hand yu are happy and on the other, the hardships of walking out of a cocoon,, walking into a world full of aliens..! The feeling of being alone, the feeling of getting away from all the pals yu have just bonded with, is so unexplainable...!
We never became the "BEST" of friends, but we sure did learn to walk holding each others hands, and today though not best, we are counted and wanted in each others life... :) :) A lotta tiffs which weren't called for, a lotta unsaid misunderstanding, a lotta other misdeeds, which we 'll not wana remember... :) yu know, like they say, SHIT HAPPENS..! ;) ;)
We will all be a part of each other's life forever...! I'd like to add, our relation will get better with life.. Started blogging with this, as a token of love to all the ladies I know :) As we know, we fall in love too hard and too fast, then we take time to make it, (P.S if it breaks its always coz of him, not us :P) we say its a long story when its really not, a broken nail is as painful as a broken heart, we get attached to people who care even a little about us, we cry for silly reasons, we lie sometimes to hide the pain, but when we realize its time to move on, we never look back and then life changes for good...!!
Yes, this is what we are and we are freaky proud of it....!!! :D :D
