It is said that people realize the worth of the person they love, once they lose them. Is it true? People are dependent on other people, in one way or the other. Simple law of 'Man being a social animal'.. When one doesn't realize the worth of the loved one when they 're present, what is the guarantee that the value will be known after they are gone? And if the value comes to light that way, do they really deserve the person... Loads of food for thought we get each day, one must just be hungry enough to find the food.
No...!! wait.... actually, if one is genuinely hungry, I believe the food will find them..
Similarly, I don't understand why 'Understanding' someone you love becomes a hard task sometimes. People these days are so held up with so many unwanted things, that they forget to spend more time with themselves...!! It is when you spend more time knowing yourself, you succeed in understanding the other. I said 'Unwanted things', in the previous line,, cause everything becomes unwanted if you don't spend the time u're given, to know yourself first.. Many, as I see, have greater problems in relationships cause of understanding..
In love, in family, in friendship, in togetherness, one doesn't see 'himself' in it. U can be the best at understanding someone only if you see the relation as 'YOU'..! It is in every human to love themselves more, a basic instinct, hence they forgive each wrong behavior, words, thoughts, actions etc when it is theirs. Understanding in a relation misses out when you see the person you are related to, as another person.
People forget, that, whether they know each other or not, they are all related to each other, as a part of the Universe.. Relations become successful and happy only when one sees himself in another. It happens very often, that one feels not understood, not loved, not cared for. I myself have gone through such feelings every now and then.. After such feelings have passed, I think - "Really?? Is it that hard for someone to understand me?? How much more simpler must I make it for someone to know me? What else should I do?" And after such flow of questions, this was the only thing that struck me - " I need not do anything. I am what I am made to be..."
It is sad when people you love the most, refuse to understand you (ps: failing to understand is one thing, and refusing to- is another), When this happens, its time to let them be, in their garden of cactus.! Some who realize come out of it, and some start enjoying the prick of thorns. So when such a thing happens, I tell myself that - There is no need to be sad, Just cause someone you are being awesome to - is not awesome to you ;) ;) because sometimes it is in your birth to be awesome to people in the right way. If your own person is failing to understand things, allow them fail..... And only be hopeful of them passing through this someday. And presently be happy that you are able to give such wonderful thoughts to mother earth, father sky, brothers and sisters who are around - the wind, the water, the fire, and the nature herself. Cause no matter what, this family would always back you, for giving out good thoughts.....! :) :) :)
No...!! wait.... actually, if one is genuinely hungry, I believe the food will find them..
Similarly, I don't understand why 'Understanding' someone you love becomes a hard task sometimes. People these days are so held up with so many unwanted things, that they forget to spend more time with themselves...!! It is when you spend more time knowing yourself, you succeed in understanding the other. I said 'Unwanted things', in the previous line,, cause everything becomes unwanted if you don't spend the time u're given, to know yourself first.. Many, as I see, have greater problems in relationships cause of understanding..
In love, in family, in friendship, in togetherness, one doesn't see 'himself' in it. U can be the best at understanding someone only if you see the relation as 'YOU'..! It is in every human to love themselves more, a basic instinct, hence they forgive each wrong behavior, words, thoughts, actions etc when it is theirs. Understanding in a relation misses out when you see the person you are related to, as another person.
People forget, that, whether they know each other or not, they are all related to each other, as a part of the Universe.. Relations become successful and happy only when one sees himself in another. It happens very often, that one feels not understood, not loved, not cared for. I myself have gone through such feelings every now and then.. After such feelings have passed, I think - "Really?? Is it that hard for someone to understand me?? How much more simpler must I make it for someone to know me? What else should I do?" And after such flow of questions, this was the only thing that struck me - " I need not do anything. I am what I am made to be..."
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