The best phase of life I would say... Probably the best things in life happen at this age.. You are growing up from being a kid.. You can see people, assess things, know whats right whats wrong.. Take responsibility for few things.. You try smoking, drinking, hanging out with friends, do all the craziest stuff.. you feel your parents are over reacting at this age, (actually its the other way round :P) A time of experimentation..New clothes, new accessories, new phones..
There is a possibility of doing all the wrong things and learning what is right..! Or there is a possibility of doing all wrong things and retaining all the wrong in life.. And also there is a possibility that you know whats right and whats wrong and you do whats necessary for then.. There are some people who have seen the dark and go towards light, they are the best kind of people.. And there are also some people, who have been under the ray of light and who go towards the dark.. When the second thing happens you know you are screwed.. haha..! This age is actually the time where one is moulded to be what they are.. Of course, people get better with time, but this age gives us the shape that we obtain..
What not happens when you are a teenager, you are so innocent, you fall in love so easily, you have people giving you attention, you exactly dunno what to do with things.. Everything is new, everyone seem like your best friends, everything is so rosy.. When I was a teenager, I thought the people in my life right now are going to be the people in my life forever.. Little did I know that people drift apart.. The number of friends I had then was too much.. Which was of no use.. The idea of friendship to me is more than love.... You accept a friend for what they are.. And no matter what, you are not gonna leave them alone, in any sort of a situation... Rights and wrongs are the dualities, and it does'nt work that way at all.. The one who stays, is a friend, the one who stands for you is a friend.. The one who naturally cares is a friend.. And so is Love..
I was also just thinking, falling in love is sooo easy at that age.. Now I am standing on a platform where I feel, this thing called 'Love' is like the 7th sense of a human being, that destroys all the six senses and makes a person completely 'Nonsensical'... lol.. hahaha (this was a troll msg I found on Fb :P).. But thats so true.. Love does'nt happen that way.. Its not a fairy tale.. A boy and a girl are two normal people who like eachother, and who would like to be there with eachother.. Thats it..!! simple! Love usually might fade away, its the will to be with eachother is what matters the most..!! The will and the respect towards eachother keeps the love alive...
We think of a life, settling, having kids, families in such a young age.. Well, our parents keep telling us, that life aint that easy, life aint that rosy, and that this is not the time to make decisions for oursleves, but we dont listen, and we hurt ourselves.. haha.. ! Seriously, age matters so much.. Age, experience..!! Thats why may be people say, nothing is the end of life, life always changes, takes turns, gives twists..
But there sure are beautiful moments and beautiful people in your life from that age..!! There will always be one boy who's loved you so much that hes still crazy about you.. There sure will be a beautiful dress or a pair of old jeans from your teenage, there sure will be stupid gifts that you made for someone you thought was special..You will have a favourite cell number that you would never forget (which is probably your password now).. you will have one person that you wished was with you even today.. And most importantly your teenage teaches you, that there are no two words, that actually exists but we use it all through...
Words like 'Forever' and 'Never'.. They really don't exist.. You might have told someone you ll love them forever, but no - it changes.. Or someone else might have given you a promise saying they will 'never' let you go, but no, they would have let you go in someway.. Forever and never - does not happen practically.. Its only today and present.. whatever is there today is the truth.. :)
So, you are lucky if you have known what is good for you, and what is not.. Our life is made of our own choices.. And we make our path through those choices.. Well, in the matter of love and togetherness, some of us are lucky, and some of us are strong soldiers of the Lord.. For those who are lucky you still have the one you have loved, with you, and for those of us who are the soldiers of the Lord, well we have so many things coming up for us.. We still dunno whos gona land and stand strong in our lives...but once they arrive, well you'll get to live the life you were waiting for...........
We all have been through Teen, and its made us all stronger in all ways.. We take on life over us, from this phase and the walk is still on.... We are still walking, towards a better phase.. towards a better place.... :) :)
PS: A summary of all those little little thoughts and memory from teenage.. could put in some, left out some.. Hope you got the feel.. ;)
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